Spanking Services For Women Across the UK – Liberate Your Carnal Desires
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When exploring spanking services for women in the UK online, a whole variety of results will show. A mixture of explicit content from adult streaming sites, or your local escort agency will likely be presented to you. If like many of my clients, you’re actually looking to hire somebody to work with you 1 on 1 for a genuinely unique experience, then you are in the right place.
I am aware of how our desires arise (and how we can live them out). Ignoring what we like rarely works. Repression of who we truly are is never a sustainable solution even if it helps us avoid discomfort in the moment.
It seems, that as humans we mostly forget that we are animals with advanced pre-frontal cortexes. As animals, we diminish our potential when we consciously or subconsciously choose to reject our primal instincts. We’ve created our modern world in a way which harms our natural physiology and thus, most of us suffer – often in silence and filled with a convoluted mix of shame, guilt and regret.
Our Arrogance
Throughout our human history we have seen ourselves as superior to all other creatures. A quick glance at the myths and stories we’ve told demonstrate how we believe we’re unique products of divine origins. Even in our current times of scientific supremacy, we still view ourselves at the pinnacle of creation. The civilisation we have created for ourselves is ashamed our of our perfectly natural instincts and urges.
Our Assumption
Our assumption is that we humans are the only rational and moral species in a world of unconscious an immoral animals. However, if you look deep below our vanity and arrogance, behind our well crafted social masks and persona, you will find our true instincts remain pinned down, neglected and frustrated.
This collective denial of our true nature makes us the sickliest species to have ever walked the earth. We are dangerously strayed from our primal instincts, making us prone to disease as we fester in the misery of mediocrity. This makes us the most interesting animal on the planet, but we need to correct this course if we are to ever feel genuine personal satisfaction.
From war, wilderness, conquest and courage – we have constructed our own prisons, built for self-domestication and sterile control. Is it not obvious why we are so unwell and unhappy? Why mental health deteriorates and physical ailments explode in growth:?
The ‘peace’ of civilization has only been achieved through strict laws, social obligations and restrictive traditions. Breaking taboos feels genuinely dangerous as we fear punishments and ostracization from our tribe.
Our Delusional Attachment To Rationality
We are fraudulent to claim we are rational, reasonable beings. Deep down in the depths of our psyche we have a totally unacceptable capacity to revel in the chaotic and extreme. Parts of us seek power, submissions, order and bedlam. To deny this is to cut ourselves off from fulfillment, forever. Whatever we deny or repress eventually leaks out later on, in much more destructive and unfulfilling ways. It’s better to grab the nettle now than be surprised by a lethal sting in the future.
Much of what makes us truly happy is instinctual, irrational, unreasonable and sometimes immoral. No amount of logic and social pressure to conform will ever change this. These drives won’t simply go away just because we’ve decided that we shouldn’t have them. We must give them their due, and learn to control and accept them. My spanking services for women and BDSM experiences can be a key tool to tap into 100% primal satisfaction.
Free Yourself From Your Obligations & The Expectations of Others
If you would like to step outside of this then please get in contact. My rates vary as all my clients requirements are different. The whole point of my spanking service for women is that it takes you ‘out of the box’, therefore I refuse to set my rates in a template manner.
A study into what is so appealing about being spanked, flogged, dominated or restrained offers some interesting insights. Letting go, deep relaxation, natural curiosity and kink are all common reasons many people choose to pursue this liberating experience.
Although based in Cheshire/Manchester, I often spend time in London and can also travel across the UK. My sessions are genuinely bespoke and tailored specifically to your individual wants and needs. I can incorporate any fantasies and turn-ons into our time together. Your skin-tolerance level and the setting will also determine what your session looks like. I am able to work to a precise brief, go with the flow, or take charge.
My promise to you is that if you articulate what you want from me, that is precisely what you will get. I don’t judge or over-analyse my clients requests. I offer a safe space to explore and relax. Together we can explore power, release and the relinquishing of your need for control.
If you are worried about being marked I can punish you without leaving marks.
Message Me Directly To Ask About My Spanking Services For Women
You must be at least 18 years old. This is not a sexual service. All bookings are always discreet and confidential – I respect your privacy as I expect the same respect from you.
Please introduce yourself by sending me an email with your name, location and message: thebritishgentleman17@gmail.com
Many of my clients enjoy spanking as a method of stress relief from the many responsibilities and stresses of their daily lives. Everything can become a bubbling pressure if left to build and fester; work, family, bills etc. Spanking can be an effective tool in relieving anxiety and working with depression. This effect may be caused by the physical release of dopamine and endorphins into the system during and after a session. Engaging in this practice will also exorcise your demons and bring your repressed shadow into the light .
Of course, like all BDSM-related activities, communication is extremely important, not just for safety but also for your enjoyment. The environment will be a relaxed one to help you openly discuss your needs and what you hope to get from our sessions. All conversations will be confidential.
Our Discontent & Malaise
Your failure to fit in society is not an anomaly, it is the norm – almost all of us feel alienated. Yet nobody talks about it, it seems. As creatures, we’re not psychically set up to sustain happiness. Our desires are at odds with what society demands from us, yet we are mostly disciplined into conformity. So, we feel alone with our yearnings, and some of us are quietly frustrated and ashamed of our drives. We deny our appetites and choose to feed the society which suppresses us. And the more you feed society with your compliance, the hungrier it gets. Giving into leads it to ask even more from us.
My spanking service for women probably isn’t a solution to all the problems of our world 🙃. However, it can lessen the pressure and soothe your psychic pain.
We still have the same brain that we did thousands of years ago. So deep within our psyche are prehistoric drives and impulses. Every human being, no matter how civilised and developed on the surface, is still an animal and archaic man in the depths of his being.
The beast within lurks in these uncivilised layers. These potentially destructive drives can overtake and possess us. Aggression and uncontrollable sexual lust are two examples of this. Instead of repressing these urges, it is far healthier to explore and become familiar with these potentially destructive drives.
Just as a raging river can be harnessed for its energy, so can the uncivilised layers of the psyche. If channelled and handled properly, they can vitalise life.
Modern humans have mostly lost touch with these ancient instincts because we rely on our consciousness to move through life. Relying solely on our consciousness means that we are prone to blindly stumbling through life, unaware of which fires burn in our unconscious recesses.
Through over-civilization we’ve lost and destroyed our instincts. We’ve forgotten how to surrender to our natural drives when our mental understanding of a situation falters.
The truth is that we have an abundance of contradictory drives and impulses with us. Our mind is like a city with thousands of characters driven by their own interests. As such, there are inevitably rivalries and alliances that form between the different interests. Numerous conflicting sub-personalities simultaneously operate within us at each moment.
Our task is to harmonise these abundant contrary drives and impulses, as well as apply coordination to the plethora of competing forces within. The best way to achieve harmony and coordination of our instincts is to have a ‘ruling passion’ aligned with our highest value. This is a dominant master drive that forms the centre of our psyche and co-opts all the other drives to become subordinate.
This ruling passion can’t be found through willpower. It has a natural intelligence that allows it to reveal itself to our consciousness through the course of our life. We just need to remain on the lookout for it and not hinder its growth.
Our master drive trains all our subservient competing drives to strive forward with a single-minded devotion towards a heroic goal which gives meaning to life. Our task as humans is to work with the elements we have been born with, and create the best sculpture we can.
The Hidden Power Of Our Dark Side
Interested in UK spanking services for women but don’t know why? Like all animals, we contain natural instincts for sex and aggression. Yet without conscious effort, we tend to repress these instincts because we yearn to ‘fit in’.
Early on in life, we put up psychological defenses to ensure that ‘dangerous’ parts of our personality are not expressed. Thus, these characteristics are repressed into the unconscious.
Through the creation of society, our desire for connection and status informs the way we beave in this world. Our repressed instincts form our shadow, which we seemingly spend a lifetime endeavoring to obscure from others (and often from ourselves).
All of us have a shadow. What differentiates us from others is the degree to which we are conscious of it.
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When our shadow remains firmly unconscious, it wrecks havoc in our life. Repressed contents do not merely disappear, but rather they function independently of our conscious awareness. The shadow has the capacity to override our conscious ego, exerting control over our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. We can be unconsciously driven into turmoil and destructive patterns of being, without having the slightest inclination of what and why we do the things that we do.
As Robert Louis Stevenson notes in his book The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, man is not one, but truly two; he has a conscious personality and a shadow, each of which battle for supremacy within the mind.
However, possessing a dark interior world isn’t all bad. Our shadow not only contains destructive aspects of our personality, but also potent, creative, and powerful capabilities. During our development certain traits and impulses are condemned by our family, peers, and educators. This condemnation isn’t logical or caring, it is borne out of envy, fear, ignorance or jealousy.
Our proclivity to abide by social expectations causes us to repress our talents and healthy urges. But if cultivated, these innate abilities and impulses have the potential to make us more effective human beings. By removing self-censorship and releasing our true selves, we bloom into who we are meant to be – benefitting both ourselves and everybody around us.
We must be curious and brave enough to look “behind the scenes”. We must look down into our depths and realise that our conscious ego is not always in control. If we recognise and accept that our mind is often overtaken by the power of our shadow, we can begin to pursue real freedom and self-sovereignty.
Once we become more aware of these dark aspects of ourselves, we must honor them. If we fail to integrate them into our life, we become weak and lost. We cannot serve two inner drives without dissipating the strength of our soul and it’s primal energies.
The shadow MUST become a part of one’s conscious personality. It is this realisation that informs my BDSM work and spanking services for women.
The shadow can be an unbeatable source of renewal. The new and productive impulses that we can release cannot come from established values of the ego. Abiding to ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ rarely empower a deep sense of vital self expression.
When there is an impasse, and sterile time in our lives—despite an adequate ego development—we must look to the dark. I.e., the unacceptable part our ourselves which we shy away from. This brings us to the fundamental fact that the shadow is the door to our individuality. In so far as the shadow renders us our first view of the unconscious part of ourselves – it represents the first stage toward meeting the Self.
There is, in fact, no access to the unconscious and to our own reality but through the shadow.
Only when we realise that part of ourselves which we have not hitherto seen or preferred not to see can we proceed to question and find the sources from which it feeds and the basis on which it rests. No progress or growth is possible until the shadow is adequately confronted….
…and confronting our shadow means more than merely knowing about it. It is not until we have truly been shocked into seeing ourselves as we really are, instead of as we wished we were, that we can take the first step towards our truth.
Message Me Directly To Ask About My Spanking Services For Women
You must be at least 18 years old. My UK spanking services are not a sexual service. All bookings are always discreet and confidential – I respect your privacy as I expect the same respect from you. Please introduce yourself by sending me an email with your name, location and message: